BTC │ Spirituality

BeTheChange  We are made of much more

We are beings of light, we radiate like the sun. Actually it is interesting that humans radiate energy at a higher frequency than the sun, especially when we are free, in a state that allows us to be our real selves without shadows, without ego illusions. Energy is lifeforce, it is our engine, it is our being, and in it lies hidden the universe, the source of all knowledge and time, past, present and future.

Energy vibrates and therefore we can measure our luminosity through our vibration, the higher the energy flow inside our body the higher the vibration. When energy flows freely we raise our vibration, but energy can also become trapped, which results in low vibration, unstable flow and less access to universal knowhow, as well as attachment and dependency on ego.

'Energy and persistence conquer all things.'

Benjamin Franklin


What blocks our energy flow?

Things like negativity, negative karma, blocks, trauma, submissiveness, fear and insecurity cause our energy to get stuck in chakra energy centres in our body. When the energy flow is disrupted or hindered our vibration remains low, which is why we need to work on ourselves and our shadow or dark side to free up the energy, to allow it to flow naturally and organically.

Ego is the ultimate tool for trapping our energy and keeping us in low vibration, as it seeks to create an illusion of safety, which is also chaotic to ensure we stay focused on the chaos rather than ourselves and what we came here to do and experience. Ego uses negative energy and fear to keep us from challenging things, it sees freedom as something that contradicts safety and therefore should not be pursued nor allowed.

For the ego to let go our spirit needs to work with and maintain constructive dialogue with the ego, to explain that we are safe and nothing will come to us, as we take concrete steps towards freedom and detachment. Nurturing the ego is about gracefully and respectfully letting go of all the illusions presented by the ego, there is no need for conflict or a big rip, just care, patience and love.

'The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.'

Socrates

We are feminine and masculine energy

Our energy is split into two, feminine 'earth' and masculine 'heaven', and this balance is important, as it sort of tells us if we are in line with our plan, walking the path pawed for us by our soul. In life we reincarnate as male or female, however in terms of energy our dynamo is made up of the feminine and masculine dynamic. Self-actualization is the tool that helps us bring balance to the force, finding the yin and yang in us and to discover our true higher self, our light.

Feminine Energy


The symbol for feminine energy flow is the moon, which is passive and represents rest. Feminine energy 'Yin' is about connectivity and grounding, which is at its strongest at night when we rest and sleep, this is where a lot of our healing and magic takes place.

Masculine Energy


The symbol for masculine energy flow is the sun, which is active and keeps us driven, determined and on the move. Masculine energy 'Yang' is associated with freedom and detachment, it is about doing what serves us best, actualizing our being and rising to the heavens, encouraging us to claim our potential.

'Don't dwell on what went wrong. Instead focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer.'

Denis Waitley

Feminine energy traits

The feminine energy is very emotional, compassionate and nurturing, it looks after us and is warm and understanding. It feels our pain and suffering, and seeks to support and understand us and what we are going thru, as well as feel the burdens we carry. Feminine energy helps us heal and allows us to be vulnerable without feeling shame or guilt, it is always soft and loving, always there for us to help us grow and understand our lessons in life.

When feminine energy is out of sync it makes itself a victim and becomes needy and manipulative. It can also be associate with unstable emotions and weakness, over-sensitivity and even spitefulness. Negative feminine energy can even try to hurt their surroundings emotionally, as well as play games rather than be straight and honest about their feelings. In relationship dynamic feminine energy suffers when feeling unseen, unsafe and misunderstood.

'Our level of universal understanding, wisdom and synchronicity with the source can be interpreted through our feminine grace and radiation.'

Niklas Christides

Masculine energy traits

Masculine energy is about control, drive and decisiveness, it is the achiever, the maker, but simultaneously it is the protector and bringer of stability, direction and structure. Masculine energy is about courage, resilience, clarity, confidence, forcefulness, linear thinking and logic, calculated actions if you like and determination to rise above any and all challenges we face. Masculine energy also takes the heavy blows and rides in the stormy seas, which is where the feminine energy comes in to support and provide the healing, to understand things at a deeper level to unlock the keys and the learning, the 'aha' realisations.

When Masculine energy is out of sync it can become very destructive and unstable, focused on abusing its power and being unreliable, abusive, aggressive and deceitful. It looks to control things with the wrong intent and runs away from things, escapes and allows space for ego to dominate and create a different reality out of sync with higher self. In relationship dynamic masculine energy suffers when being criticised, controlled and suppressed.

'Manliness consists not in bluff, bravado or loneliness. It consists in daring to do the right thing and facing consequences whether it is in matters social, political or other. It consists in deeds not words.'

Mahatma Gandhi

Self-actualization is finding peace and harmony inside and outside

Self-actualization is the process of self-discovery, dwelling into our being to understand who we really are deep down. It is about peeling the layers of the onion, each layer at the time, respecting the fact that everything has a place and time, and that everything is in flux, constant change, the dance of causality, relationship between cause and effect, every action has a counter action.

Pleasing & Serving

When we live our life to please our surroundings, we work hard on fitting in and serving the outside environment rather than ourselves. In this state we cannot grow holistically and we are sort of trapped in a world created for us by the ego, who is trying to make sure we are safe and out of harm's way, and this is always based on short term thinking and benefit.

Freedom & Detachment

When we live our life focusing on ourselves and our growth rather than the outside world we come to understand that freedom is precious and that our level of freedom increases our energy and vibration, as well as sense of purpose. We understand that we exist to serve a greater purpose, and for us to truly serve this purpose we must detach from obsession and possession to become free.


Transforming our lives is not something we should take for granted and expect it 'just to happen'. No, in actual fact it is our courage, resilience and belief that determines if we are to become more conscious and aware of who we really are (our being). Our surroundings and interaction with the surroundings, as well as the relationship to our mind influenced by ego is what ultimately determines our holistic (physical, mental, spiritual) maturity and vibration (low vs high).

Reflection ground for connectivity and freedom measured through level of:

1) Self-actualisation (who am I, what do I want, why do I want)

2) Awareness (what do I know, what can I see)

3) Passion (what gives me purpose, what drives me)

4) Quality of life (how do I feel, am I happy)

5) Unconditional love (do I love, do I care, why do I care)

'Self-Actualization is all about us understanding our values, our moral ground and relationship to both self and everything around us.'

Niklas Christides

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BTC │ Society │ Fear

Fear keeps us stagnant and disrupts our energy flow, it is a major player impacting our vibration. This is why our relationship to fear and through fear ego is of such importance, because no real healing can start if we are in tidal lock with fear. Releasing your fears, allows you to start your spiritual growth. 


BTC │ Awareness │ Learning

Growth is key, and life is about learning and growth. So understanding and developing a healthy relationship to learning is crucial. What we know, experience, see and feel is all subject to our vibration level, the more radiate, the more access we have.